just over 2 weeks ago, scott and i vowed our lives to each other for better, for worse, in sickness and in health, for richer, for poorer, till we are parted by death. weighty promises, as they should be. the wedding deserves its own post, but i can't seem to capture it in this space. it is set apart as a day when we found ourselves surrounded by all of these amazing people we call our friends, family and community, who came to stand with us as we made these vows, to witness our ceremony and to celebrate with us afterwards. pictures and words can only offer glimpses into the love, hope and blessing that i felt covered and surrounded by.
almost a year ago, i was still deeply weighing this decision to enter into a deeper relationship with scott. as i sought the wisdom of many friends, counselors and authors, one image took up residence in my mind. the author described marriage akin to "betting the farm", meaning that two people making such promises is a huge, risky jump into the unknown. further they went on to suggest that when making vows like those written above, no one can really know what they are promising to. the future remains uncertain. like betting the farm (one's entire life), the expansiveness of the endeavor can't be underestimated, however the people doing the betting had better have a pretty good idea that they are betting on something solid.
it was this idea that helped me realize that if i did want to enter into the realm of marriage, i too would have to take that jump. a few months later, God freed me from the fears holding me back and opened my eyes to see that indeed scott was the man with whom i wanted to "bet the farm". so bet we did, trusting that as we have jumped into the unknown, God will carry us.
5 comments:
I was thinking of you yesterday and this "bet." Grace and Peace to you both in this transition.
Hey chica, so cool to hear about the "bet." Ha! Praying that God will continue to carry you as you adjust and enjoy the early days of married life. Fun times! Miss you sexy sista!
Congratulations Beth and Scott! We never know what's around the corner, but what a gift to have a beloved friend and love by your side. May God grow and protect your love in the years to come! Can't wait to see pictures of your special day!!
Yaay! So beautifully written and shared, Beth! :)
I had the same type of experience, yet my vision was "jumping off a cliff!" :) You just have to jump together, holding on tightly, and have faith God will help ya' soar!!! :) He can!!
Your wedding was one of the highlights of my year!! xoxo.
Congratulations! God is so very good, isn't He?!
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